We think we have problems...

They have just seized smuggled Frozen  meat from the 1970's in China bound for stores and restaurants. Smuggled in from India. WTH??? Who does that? Worth five hundred million dollars. Well the truth is it isn't worth a penny, but who is counting....

Tracing my...

husband's body while he sleeps. My fingers lightly touching him all over. Slowly going one inch at a time from top to bottom.  Uhm...no!   Why do men touch you when you are dead asleep? RJ has this horrible habit of pulling me to him in the...

Big Love...

While I was sick I searched my internet for streaming t.v. shows. I found Big Love which is a show on HBO about plural families. Unlike the Sister Wives it is a scripted show. I like it. I've watched almost the entire first season. The relationships...

Attention seekers...

I guess in every social situation there are attention seekers. Grammer school, high school, facebook and even here on thoughts.com. Well maybe especially on thoughts.com. I've been in and out of this place since 2007. I've seen a lot happen, made some...

I'm sick...again.

I never do anything lightly. If I get sick, I get deathly sick. Appears I have a flare up of diverticulitis. Nasty word. Painful crap. Bleh!   It came on on Friday night about 10. I had a high fever all night, and dreadful pain. I got up...

Annoying phone calls...

We have moved into a new era, one I am not happy with.   Who remembers when caller ID came out? Oh boy, wasn't that something. No longer do you have to answer calls from that annoying neighbor. No longer do you have to answer any call that you...

Who Taught this Child to Hate?

South Carolina and this shooting is far removed from me personally. I don't know any of the victims, nor the shooter. What I do know is that this boy did not come into this world with hate in his heart. Somewhere along the line he learned that some...

Things I LOVE!

Just to be fair, I thought I would follow up my "Things I Hate" blog with a kinder, gentler side of myself. I'm just being honest here, because at this point in my life, I just don't feel the need to put on airs. I am who I am, and people I promise...

Things I HATE!

Humor me please...   I hate liars...OMG how I hate liars! I can always tell when someone is lying to me. Makes me so mad, I could throat punch them. Usually I just smile, while killing them in my head. Usually with my bare hands. Yep!   I...

Not me!

There is some kind of scheme going on in our area. Men and women in SUV's are targeting women in shopping centers/stores. They follow them around, and then try to snag them to put them in their vehicles. Most of their attempts have been thrwarted, and...

Hmmm...

I am uber frustrated with this court case already, not to mention our lawyer.  At our initial meeting he told me we would be notified at every turn as the case unfolds. So far I have made two phone calls to him, one was returned, the other not. After...

well duh!

I am so dumb!  I sought help for my hot flashes in a natural way. I was told Peppermint oil would do the trick. So without searching it out, I applied it to my body, and in several places. Straight out of the little bottle, full strength.  I put it on...

So...

Thank God for Fridays. This weekend I have no obligations. None. Can we get a Yahoo? I am caught up on all of my editing/burning of photography sessions, and I have zero to do. I like that feeling. I am sure something will come up, but I am hoping...

Well...

Time just seems to fly by. Already June 4th. Soon enough JH will be gone two months. I skyped with him last night, and I am concerned. I do believe T is putting him in his room, and leaving him. All he has in his room is stuffed animals, and a few...

The Ties that Bind

I know we have all felt connections to people,  to places, and sometimes even things. I am tied to my past in so many little ways. The people I grew up with. The places I lived. The memories are so present in my mind, that they seem palpable. Almost...

Pancake Day...

Thursday is pancake day in the daycare, and has been for many moons. The Littles learn the days of the week by attaching something permanent to them. Tuesday is biscuit day, and the other three days are cereal days. We go over the days of the week...

Oh Dear...

Last night I requested a skype with my grandson JH. T didn't answer for a long time. When she did she said she has to work every night till closing, so she won't have time. I reminded her that I have skype on my cell phone, so anytime would be okay....

Mother's Day Weekend

RJ and I spent Saturday moving our Sunshine and her man into a new home, and not a moment too soon. Apartment living has to be the most annoying thing in the entire world. All those nosy neighbors. I'm thanking God that I have never had to live in an...

Here we go...

JH has been gone now for three weeks today. Moved 1500 miles away from us by his mother. In that time I have asked for, and received a few pics. I've also been allowed to skype with him once. Yesterday I offered to meet T and her husband half way to...

Bittersweet...

RJ and I finally got to skype with our two year old grandson JH. It's only been a couple of weeks since his mom moved him 1500 miles away, but it seems like an eon. He peered into the camera and smiled. When he saw RJ he yelled "Papaw". Oh how sweet,...

Nobody wins!

So, we met with the lawyer on Saturday and learned a lot of things. Some were good, and of course some were not. We will go over the bad parts first.   In our state if you are not married and have a child together, even if the father's name is...